Sexuality & Pleasure4 min read
When Effort & Expectation Falls Away: Tantric Orgasms as a By-Product of Coherence
One of the misconceptions I see again and again in the Tantric world and sexuality is the belief that orgasm is something to be achieved. It is chased, engineered, optimised, timed. Bodies are worked harder. Breath is pushed. Attention narrows. Expectations rise. And paradoxically, for many people, the more effort that is applied, the further orgasmic experience seems to slip away. And yes, for others, that same effort can still produce an orgasm. But often it becomes a kind of discharge...
