A path shaped with you
We begin with what feels most alive in your life now. Together, you and Andrew create a mentoring map that gives the work direction while leaving space for new questions, discoveries and possibilities to emerge.
Personal Mentoring
Sustained guidance for the life you are ready to cultivate
Personal Mentoring with Andrew brings sexuality, relationship, embodiment, sexual energy and spiritual development into one sustained field of learning. It can unfold through online conversation, agreed in-person experiences such as tantric rituals or Tantric Body De-armouring, or a thoughtful blend of both.
An adventure of the spirit
Personal guidance over time
Follow what is changing, and what wants to grow
Personal Mentoring gives us time to follow the connections between the question that brought you here and the wider life in which it is unfolding.
You might come for three months around a clear turning point, or choose six, nine or twelve months when you want the mentoring to deepen and mature alongside your life. There is a shape to the work, but it never becomes a rigid course. What we explore follows what is actually unfolding for you.
Sexuality understood more deeplyRelationships approached with greater claritySexual energy cultivated and circulatedConsciousness expanded through lived practiceEmbodiment made tangibleInsight woven into daily life
What mentoring adds
More than a duration, a deeper field of learning
Mentoring gives us time to notice what keeps returning, explore it from more than one angle and bring the discoveries into the way you live, love and choose. It is a mentor–mentee process: Andrew brings experience, perspective and guidance while supporting you to recognise what is true for you.
Experience shared generously
Andrew brings what he has learnt through clinical sexology, Tantra, personal practice and decades of facilitating around the world. He offers perspectives, questions and practices that can help you see more clearly, then supports you to find the answers that are genuinely yours.
Insight you can live
Conversation opens the door. Carefully chosen practices, reflection and, where helpful, agreed in-person experiences help new understanding move into the way you feel, choose and live.
The mentoring field
Different parts of life can speak to one another
You do not need to arrive with a perfectly formed goal. We can begin with the part of life that feels most alive, then follow the threads between sexuality, intimacy, the body, sexual energy, spiritual practice and the person you are becoming.
Sexuality & pleasure
Come into a warmer, more confident understanding of your sexuality, your desire and the kinds of pleasure that allow you to feel fully alive.
Relationships & intimacy
See what keeps happening in your intimate life, understand it with greater compassion and create new possibilities for communication, closeness and shared direction.
Sexual energy & consciousness
Learn to cultivate and circulate sexual energy through the body, allowing it to become a source of vitality, meditation and expanding consciousness.
Tantric rituals & embodied experience
Where it supports your direction, mentoring may include agreed tantric rituals, Tantric Body De-armouring or another carefully designed in-person experience.
Retreat experience & integration
Prepare for an immersive experience with intention, receive personal guidance around it and give what opens there a meaningful place in everyday life.
Life direction & spiritual practice
Let sexuality, spirituality, purpose and practical life illuminate one another, especially when you are moving through change or sensing a new direction.
Personal Mentoring programmes
Four ways to give the work time to deepen
Choose three, six, nine or twelve months according to the depth and breadth of what you want to explore. Each timeframe offers a clear beginning while leaving the mentoring free to respond to your life as it unfolds.
A Season of Personal Mentoring
A concentrated season of guidance when one important part of life is asking for attention and you want more than an occasional conversation.
Explore this timeframe →Personal Mentoring
Time for insight, practice and everyday change to deepen together, with enough continuity to follow what unfolds rather than rush it.
Explore this timeframe →Immersive Personal Mentoring
A wider arc that can blend online mentoring with agreed in-person experiences, held through thoughtful preparation and integration.
Explore this timeframe →A Year of Personal Mentoring
A spacious year in which deeper themes can mature through changing seasons of life, intimacy, embodiment, sexuality and spiritual practice.
Explore this timeframe →What the mentoring can include
A living structure, shaped around your life
No two mentoring journeys need to look the same. Andrew can draw from these elements to create a rhythm that helps new understanding become something you experience and live, not simply something you talk about.
Spacious 90-minute sessions
The rhythm is agreed together so each conversation has room to breathe and the work can move at a pace that suits its purpose.
Your personal mentoring map
Created at the beginning and revisited as the work develops, it offers a living compass rather than a rigid curriculum.
Practices chosen for you
Reflections, meditations, relational practices and learning resources are selected because they speak to your life and direction.
Agreed contact between sessions
A clear level of written contact can give you a place for brief reflection, clarification or adjustment while the work is unfolding.
Optional embodied experiences
Where suitable and mutually agreed, mentoring can include tantric rituals, Tantric Body De-armouring, a private intensive or a retreat experience.
Reflection and continuing direction
We gather what has changed, honour what is still unfolding and shape a practical direction for the life beyond the programme.
A custom arrangement
When your life asks for a different rhythm
If none of the four timeframes quite fits, Andrew can create a custom arrangement with an individual or couple. It may bring together online mentoring, tantric rituals, private intensives, retreats, Tantric Body De-armouring and work with intimate or life questions in a rhythm that serves the purpose of the mentoring.
Where it genuinely serves the work, Andrew may propose involving a suitably experienced female practitioner for a particular perspective, session or in-person component. Her role, purpose, boundaries and fee are explained in advance, and her involvement rests on your clear agreement.
Explore a bespoke programme →In-person and embodied experience
Immersion can open what conversation alone cannot reach
Some blended and bespoke programmes may include a suitable retreat, a private intensive, tantric rituals or Tantric Body De-armouring. These are optional parts of mentoring, considered for their relevance to you and held within clear preparation, boundaries and integration.
Chosen for a reason
An in-person experience is included because it has a clear place in your mentoring, never simply because it is available. You understand what it offers before deciding.
Your choice stays alive
Consent continues throughout. You can pause, change direction or choose an entirely online path while keeping the wider purpose of the mentoring intact.
What opens can enter your life
Preparation and reflection give insight, intensity and expanded states somewhere to land, so the experience can nourish the way you live beyond the session or retreat.
How mentoring begins
A clear beginning, with room to feel what is right
The Discovery Session is a generous first conversation. It lets us understand what you are seeking, imagine the shape the mentoring could take and decide whether Andrew is the right mentor for this part of your life.
Begin with a Discovery Session
A 90-minute or 2-hour conversation gives us room to understand what is calling for attention, what you hope may become possible and whether Personal Mentoring is the right kind of support.
Choose your Discovery Session →Shape your mentoring path
You and Andrew clarify the central direction, the timeframe, the online or blended structure and the rhythm that will best support the work.
Receive a clear written proposal
You receive the proposed programme, inclusions, investment, payment choices, contact between sessions and any additional costs in one clear place.
Decide in your own time
If the mentoring feels right for both of you, the first session establishes the rhythm and opens the work with the questions and practices that matter now.
A meaningful fit
For people who want to meet their lives with curiosity and intention
Personal Mentoring may suit you when a single answer is not enough and you want time to understand how sexuality, intimacy, sexual energy, consciousness and life direction belong to the same unfolding life.
- You are willing to stay curious between sessions and try what feels meaningful in your own life.
- You value a mentor–mentee process that can evolve while retaining clear professional boundaries.
- You want knowledge and lived experience to illuminate one another.
- You are open to choosing an online, blended or bespoke structure according to suitability.
Before you decide
Practical questions, answered clearly
How is Personal Mentoring different from a coaching series?
A coaching series is a shorter sequence of online sessions around the questions that matter now. Personal Mentoring gives us a wider horizon of three, six, nine or twelve months, or a custom timeframe, with 90-minute sessions, a living mentoring map, tailored practices and the possibility of carefully designed in-person experiences.
Can mentoring be entirely online?
Yes. Any Personal Mentoring option can remain entirely online. In-person experiences are simply an additional possibility when they feel meaningful, suitable and clearly agreed.
Are retreats, tantric rituals or Tantric Body De-armouring automatically included?
These experiences are optional and are considered only when they genuinely serve your mentoring direction. Any retreat, private intensive, tantric ritual or Tantric Body De-armouring experience, together with any additional fee, is discussed and agreed before it becomes part of the programme.
Can another practitioner be involved?
Within a bespoke programme, Andrew may propose a suitably experienced female practitioner for a particular perspective or component. Her role, purpose, boundaries and fee are discussed in advance, and her involvement proceeds only with your clear agreement.
Can couples apply?
Yes. Personal Mentoring can be created for a couple who want time to understand their individual experiences, explore what is happening between them and cultivate a shared direction together.
What support is available between sessions?
The agreed level of written contact is stated in the proposal. It is intended for concise reflection and clarification rather than continuous or emergency support.
Is Personal Mentoring therapy?
No. Personal Mentoring is educational and developmental. It does not diagnose or treat medical or mental health conditions and is not psychotherapy, crisis support or specialised trauma treatment. Andrew will recommend another form of professional care when a concern sits outside his scope.
Begin with a Discovery Session
Give the first conversation enough room to be authentic
A Discovery Session gives us room to understand what you want to explore, what may be shaping it and how Personal Mentoring could support you. You may come individually or with a partner and choose the length that feels most spacious for the conversation.
A generous beginning90-minute Discovery Session$165 USD →More spacious2-hour Discovery Session$235 USD →
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