Coaching & Consultations
Private support shaped around what matters to you
For individuals, couples and practitioners seeking thoughtful, grounded support with sexuality, relationships, sexual energy, personal development or professional practice.
More will be revealed
A clear place to begin
Start with the question that is alive for you
A Discovery Session is a spacious conversation about whatever in your sexuality, relationship, life or professional work is asking for your attention.
In a Discovery Session, we can explore what is happening, what you want to understand or change, and how the different threads may be connected. By the end, Andrew will share what he believes may be contributing, whether and how he can support you, and what a useful next step could be. When his work is not the right fit, he can suggest other forms of support to consider.
Reasons people come
Different questions. One place to begin
People rarely arrive with a question that belongs neatly in one box. Sexuality can touch relationships, health, confidence, pleasure, purpose and professional life. These starting points help us recognise the threads and understand how they may be connected.
Sexual wellbeing & function
Understand changes in desire, arousal, orgasm, ejaculation, erection, discomfort or confidence, and develop a more informed, less pressured relationship with your sexuality.
Relationships & communication
See what may be happening beneath recurring tension, use the Relationship Map to recognise familiar patterns, and create clearer, more life-giving ways of relating.
Sexual energy & full-body pleasure
Awaken, cultivate and circulate sexual energy, expand your capacity for whole-body pleasure, and bring more vitality into intimacy and everyday life.
Understanding female sexuality
Develop a clearer understanding of female genital anatomy, desire, arousal, orgasm, ejaculation and squirting, while making space for body image, autonomy and lived experience.
Understanding male sexuality
Discover a broader experience of male sexuality beyond performance, including anatomy, desire, arousal, orgasm, ejaculation, prostate pleasure and sexual self-understanding.
Integration & life transitions
Find meaning and direction during changes in sexuality, relationships, identity, spirituality, work or life, and bring new understanding into the way you live.
Ways to work together
Choose the direction and depth of support that fits
A Discovery Session can be complete in itself or become the beginning of something more. You can continue through three, six or nine coaching sessions, create a custom series, or shape a longer personal or professional mentoring journey. The designed Sexuality Pathways are presented separately below.
Begin with clarity
Discovery Session
Bring every question that matters. In 90 minutes or two hours, we can explore what is happening, what may be shaping it and what kind of support could help you move forward.
One private session · 90 minutes or 2 hoursBook a Discovery Session →Choose a transformation
Sexuality Pathways
When a particular change is calling you, the four designed pathways below offer a clear journey into ejaculatory choice, expanding pleasure, sexual difficulties or The Revelation.
Four designed pathways, presented separately belowExplore Sexuality Pathways →Let the work unfold
Ongoing Coaching
When several parts of life are connected, ongoing sessions create room to follow what emerges, try new practices, notice what changes and shape the work as your understanding deepens.
Choose 3, 6 or 9 sessions, or a custom seriesExplore Ongoing Coaching →A wider personal journey
Personal mentoring
Explore sexuality, relationships, energy, meditation, spirituality and the life you want to create through a longer journey that can bring online sessions, retreats and agreed in-person experiences such as Tantric Body De-armouring together.
Choose 3, 6, 9 or 12 months, or a custom arrangementExplore Personal Mentoring →Grow the work you are here to offer
Professional mentoring
Bring real practitioner questions, strengthen skill and discernment, work through complex client dynamics, and shape a professional path that is ethical, purposeful and sustainable.
Customised programmes of 3, 6, 9 or 12 monthsExplore Professional Mentoring →The approach
Authentic, collaborative and grounded in choice
Private work can reach into the most intimate parts of sexuality, relationships and identity. Andrew shares relevant knowledge and experience, asks thoughtful questions and offers perspectives that can help illuminate what is happening, while supporting you to find the answers, choices and direction that are true for you.
Collaborative from the beginning
We begin with what you want to understand or change, then follow the connections as they appear. Each conversation builds on what you are noticing and practising, allowing the direction to develop with you.
Knowledge that meets real life
Andrew draws on clinical sexology, sexuality education, Tantra, the Relationship Map, meditation and decades of working with people across cultures, then connects that knowledge to the reality of what you are living.
Conversations that can change what you see
Many people have never had a place to speak deeply and intelligently about sexuality, pleasure, relationships or sexual energy. Giving these questions real attention can reveal connections you had never seen and open possibilities that once felt out of reach.
Begin with a Discovery Session
Give the first conversation enough room
Whether you choose 90 minutes or two hours, there is room to move beyond the surface, follow the connections between your questions and understand what kind of support could create meaningful movement. Bring what matters, and we will begin there.
You can book a private Discovery Session for yourself or attend together with a partner.
90-minute Discovery Session
A generous first conversation with room to bring as many questions as you wish, explore the connections between them and receive Andrew’s perspective on possible next steps.
$165 USDBook 90 minutesBefore booking, please read the booking and cancellation policy.
2-hour Discovery Session
An additional 30 minutes when you would value a slower pace, more history or more time for reflection. Individuals and couples are equally welcome.
$235 USDBook 2 hoursBefore booking, please read the booking and cancellation policy.
Unsure which session to choose?Write briefly about what you would like support with, and Andrew can suggest the clearest place to begin.
Contact Andrew →Sexuality Pathways
Choose the change you want to make more possible
You may already know what you long to change, recover or make possible. Each pathway gives six private sessions to one meaningful area, with enough structure to create momentum and enough flexibility to respond to your body, history, relationships and life.
Private sexuality coaching for men
Ejaculatory Choice
Last longer, choose when you ejaculate and explore orgasm without ejaculation.For men experiencing premature ejaculation, ejaculating sooner than they want to, or wanting to separate orgasm from ejaculation. Together, we explore what may be driving your present pattern and develop practical ways to create greater awareness, control and choice as arousal rises.
The work may include
- Finding the physical, emotional, relational or learned patterns that may be contributing
- Recognising the earlier signs as arousal builds
- Using breath, pelvic awareness, movement and pacing to stay present
- Learning to choose when you ejaculate rather than being overtaken by excitement
- Exploring orgasm without ejaculation and expanding pleasure through the body
Six-session pathway6 × 60-minute private sessions
$675 USD
By purchasing, you confirm that you have read the Coaching Booking, Cancellation & Refund Policy.
Private sexuality coaching for women
Expanding Pleasure
Feel more at home in your body and open new pathways into pleasure.For women who find pleasure difficult to feel, rarely or never orgasm, or sense that more aliveness is possible. We begin with your experience, explore what may be limiting desire, sensation or arousal, and create practical ways for pleasure to become more accessible, natural and your own.
The work may include
- Discovering what helps desire and arousal come alive for you
- Deepening connection with your body and genital anatomy
- Learning to receive and stay with pleasure without having to perform
- Expressing what feels good so intimacy can become more connected and satisfying
- Cultivating and circulating sexual energy through the body to awaken more fully
Six-session pathway6 × 60-minute private sessions
$675 USD
By purchasing, you confirm that you have read the Coaching Booking, Cancellation & Refund Policy.
For women and men, individually or as a couple
When Sex Isn’t Working
Move from frustration and uncertainty towards greater comfort, confidence, pleasure and connection.When sex is painful, pleasure feels out of reach or your body is not responding in the way you want, it can leave you feeling frustrated, worried or alone. Across six private sessions, we make sense of what is happening, explore what may be contributing and develop practical ways towards greater comfort, confidence, pleasure and connection.
The work may include
- Difficulty reaching orgasm or feeling very little pleasure
- Pain or discomfort during sex
- Erectile difficulties or losing an erection
- Delayed ejaculation or being unable to ejaculate
- Low desire, changes in arousal or sex no longer feeling enjoyable
Individual pathway6 × 60-minute private sessions
$675 USD
By purchasing, you confirm that you have read the Coaching Booking, Cancellation & Refund Policy.
Couples pathway6 × 90-minute private sessions
$950 USD
By purchasing, you confirm that you have read the Coaching Booking, Cancellation & Refund Policy.
A six-part journey for individuals and couples
The Revelation
See what has shaped your sexuality. Claim the direction you want it to take.The Revelation is a journey into the story your sexuality has been living and the future you want to create. It helps you recognise repeating patterns, understand what may have shaped them, name the sexual life that feels true for you and begin bringing that direction into the way you live and relate.
The six-part journey
- See the sexual patterns shaping your life
- Understand where they may have come from
- Feel what they are creating in your life now
- Imagine the sexual life you genuinely want
- Speak your truth and have it respectfully witnessed
- Turn new insight into choices you can live
Individual pathway6 × 60-minute private sessions
$675 USD
By purchasing, you confirm that you have read the Coaching Booking, Cancellation & Refund Policy.
Couples pathway6 × 90-minute private sessions
$950 USD
By purchasing, you confirm that you have read the Coaching Booking, Cancellation & Refund Policy.
Six sessions shaped around you
After you choose a pathway, a short intake helps Andrew understand what brings you. The six online sessions follow a clear direction while remaining responsive to your questions, discoveries and lived experience.
- Begin directly with your chosen pathway, or book a Discovery Session first if you would value one
- Six private online sessions, each shaped around what you are experiencing and discovering
- Individual pathways are $675 USD; the two couples pathways are $950 USD
- Couples pathways include six 90-minute sessions for When Sex Isn’t Working or The Revelation
These pathways offer sexuality education, coaching and personal development. If a medical or mental health concern needs different expertise, Andrew will discuss this with you openly and help you consider an appropriately qualified professional.
Flexible Coaching Series
Choose the space your questions need
Some questions need more than one conversation, yet do not fit neatly inside a designed Sexuality Pathway. Choose the amount of support that feels right and let the sessions follow what is unfolding in your sexuality, relationships and life. You can begin directly, or choose a Discovery Session first if that feels helpful.
Insight Coaching Series
3 private sessionsThree conversations to shine light on what is happening, reveal connections that may have been hard to see and find practical next steps that feel right for you.
$350 USD
By purchasing, you confirm that you have read the Coaching Booking, Cancellation & Refund Policy.
Change Coaching Series
6 private sessionsSix sessions give an important question time to unfold. Together, we can understand its deeper roots, explore new ways of responding and begin bringing genuine change into everyday life.
$675 USD
By purchasing, you confirm that you have read the Coaching Booking, Cancellation & Refund Policy.
Transformation Coaching Series
9 private sessionsNine sessions create a spacious journey when sexuality, relationships and life are intertwined, helping you reshape long-standing patterns and grow into new possibilities with steady support.
$990 USD
By purchasing, you confirm that you have read the Coaching Booking, Cancellation & Refund Policy.
What you can expect
- Three, six or nine private 60-minute online sessions for individual coaching
- Begin directly, or book a Discovery Session first if that feels useful
- Bring the questions, patterns or changes that matter most to you
- Let each conversation respond to what you are discovering between sessions
- Couples can choose 90-minute sessions through the options shown alongside
Prefer one session at a time?
60-minute Continuing Coaching Session
$120 USDChoose one focused conversation without committing to a complete series.
Arrange an individual session →90-minute Continuing Couples Coaching Session
$165 USDA longer session with room to hear both people and work with what is happening between you.
Arrange a couples session →Before you book
A few helpful things to know
Can I attend alone or with a partner?
Discovery Sessions welcome individuals and couples at the same price. Continuing Coaching has two formats: 60 minutes for an individual or 90 minutes for a couple. Ejaculatory Choice and Expanding Pleasure are individual pathways, while When Sex Isn’t Working and The Revelation may be chosen as either an individual or couples pathway.
Can I begin directly with a Sexuality Pathway?
You are welcome to move directly into a Sexuality Pathway when one clearly matches what you want. If you would prefer to talk things through first, a Discovery Session can help clarify which form of support is likely to suit you best.
Are sessions online or in person?
Discovery Sessions, Sexuality Pathways and the three, six and nine-session ongoing coaching options are private online work. Personal Mentoring is a separate, longer journey that may be online, in person or blended with retreats and other embodied experiences when suitable.
Is previous Tantra experience expected?
You can begin exactly where you are. Andrew uses clear language and practical explanations, so previous experience with Tantra is not expected.
How do the flexible coaching options work?
The three, six and nine-session Coaching Series are designed for individual 60-minute sessions. Couples may choose a single 90-minute Continuing Coaching Session, or one of the six-session couples pathways for When Sex Isn’t Working or The Revelation. You can begin with a Discovery Session if you would value an initial conversation, or choose a series directly.
Work with Andrew
You can begin with one meaningful conversation
Bring the question as it is. Clarity about the next step can emerge from there.