Choice remains yours
A yes is specific and changeable. You may ask questions, adapt your participation, pause, decline or stop.
The principles behind the practice
Work involving sexuality, intimacy and altered states asks for more than good intentions. It asks for clear roles, informed choice, accountable practice and boundaries that remain visible when an experience becomes powerful.
These commitments shape Andrew’s retreats, events, consultations, mentoring and practitioner education. They make clear what people can expect, where the work’s scope ends and how concerns can be raised.
A visible foundation
Ethics are not decorative words placed around intimate work. They are the practical structure that protects choice, names responsibility and gives power somewhere to answer.
This page does not promise that difficult moments or harm can never occur. It makes the standard visible: how participation is approached, where professional limits sit and what should happen when something needs to be questioned or addressed.
A yes is specific and changeable. You may ask questions, adapt your participation, pause, decline or stop.
The facilitator’s responsibility is to guide the process, maintain boundaries and never seek personal gratification through it.
The purpose, possibilities and limits of an offering are made clear, including when different or specialist support is needed.
Questions and concerns can be raised, and an independent route remains available when the matter should sit outside Andrew’s team.
Ethics in practice
Open each principle for a concise account of the expectation behind it. The full published documents remain available below for anyone who needs the detailed wording and procedures.
Before participation, people need enough balanced information to decide freely. During an experience, their authority over their own involvement remains intact.
The facilitator is responsible for holding the structure of the work, attending to power differences and keeping personal needs out of the participant’s or group’s process.
Pace, choice, communication and the possibility of overwhelm are considered throughout. The scope of each retreat, event, consultation or training is described without presenting personal development as specialist treatment.
Confidentiality expectations are established for professional teams and participants. Privacy also includes how registration information, personal disclosures, images and communications are handled.
Responsibility includes ongoing education, reflective practice and seeking consultation or supervision when the work calls for it. Difficult moments should be examined rather than explained away.
A practical event matter may begin with Andrew’s team. A formal grievance, a concern involving Andrew or a matter requiring greater independence can be taken to Safe Mediation.
Accountability in public
Andrew undertook a third-party accountability process with Safe Mediation in response to allegations of sexual misconduct. The process formally concluded in April 2023.
This information remains public because professional integrity is not built by presenting a flawless image. It requires a willingness to be answerable, to keep difficult history visible and to preserve a route outside one’s own organisation for anyone who has concerns.
Detailed standards and procedures
The concise principles above are a guide, not a replacement for the detailed documents. Read each one for its full standards, scope and procedures.
The principles and required conduct applying to Andrew and the people formally working in event roles.
Read the CodeHow event-related complaints and formal allegations of ethical breaches are distinguished and addressed.
Read the ProcedureThe trauma-informed approach, realistic scope of support and limits of retreats and events.
Read the StatementThe scope of Tantric Body De-armouring Practitioner Training in relation to trauma and future professional practice.
Read the StatementThe public record of Andrew’s third-party accountability process with Safe Mediation, completed in April 2023.
Read the RecordHow personal information is collected, used, protected and shared, together with your data-protection rights.
Read the StatementWhen something does not feel right
You may ask a question, name a discomfort or raise a concern without first deciding whether it is a complaint, grievance or breach of the Code.
For an event, registration or practical concern, you can begin with a direct conversation and ask what process will follow.
Contact AndrewFor a formal grievance, a concern involving Andrew or a matter you do not want handled within his team, contact Safe Mediation directly.
Contact Safe Mediation